If you in a unresolved problem in your elders home or personal requirement you look it in wide spread mind and find easiest way to find answer to this problems. You look in donation providers and various NGOS and richest persons they are looking to donate they collect extra money and properties for their pleasure. Read news papers, looking in the websites also electronic medias. some people donate their old vehicles, house and money for tax relaxation.
Most of the businessmen they provide donation for tax deduction. they invest their extra money to share market and they earn extra profit from that and they use those money for charity work and show it in their business profile as the charity work it useful for their business tax credits for donations.
Find like these persons to resolve you unable to control also unable to handle problems. I suppose to this is the easiest way to come out from the matters you can look after your elders' home.